This is so exciting getting to take you along for one of the most challenging rides of my business: creating an eBook. Running my business, doing my private in-home training lessons, and posting to socials are nothing in comparison. Why? Because those things are necessity’s to run my business successfully. An eBook on the other hand is an option, but no one looks at a business and goes “Oh, she doesn’t have resources outside of her services. How unprofessional.”
Because of this, there is no “Need” for me to do it (Which means all of my grit needs to come from a rather motivating “Why.”) That’s where you come in. Knowing that this eBook will help supplement the training y’all have done or will do with your dog in the future is my “Why.”
I had to remind myself of this “Why” MULTIPLE times in this last week as I’m in the very technical portion of my eBook (which is proving very meticulous and detail-dependent).
On the ‘Gram: “Not Feeling Motivated? My Top Tips to Pick Yourself Back Up“


I’m currently in the portion of my eBook where I show owners (both with descriptions and pictures) how to add links into and remove links out of a prong collar. If owners have done training with me when there dog was 6 months old, their dog is undoubtedly going to grow (which may mean that the prong collar we fitted them for during training, may not be the same proper fit 6 months from now).
For this reason, this portion of the eBook is imperative but very very tedious. I can’t do the next portion of that part of my eBook until I get my nails done an eBook immortalizes the state of them for as long as you sell it for.
Fun story actually (and it relates to dog training, too!)
I have a “Daily Habits Checklist” that I use to build up healthy habits (until I don’t need to “track” them anymore because they’ve become automatic). A new habit I added this month is “No picking at face” (I have a tendency to do this).

You know what the problem with this goal is?
It’s desire is to stop the “effect” without looking at the “cause.”
Trust me when I say, I did not come to that conclusion by mediating on it. I actually came to this conclusion when I bit off all of the gel of my manicure and then ripped off the leftover length at the top of my nails. I haven’t done this in YEARS. It wasn’t until I thought about “Why” I had done it that I realized I took away one of my cooping mechanisms with stress (Picking my face) and I just moved to the next in line.
You know what I call this in my training?

If you only get rid of the “Effect” of a problem behavior (without eliminating the cause), another problem behavior will just pop up right in it’s place.
All this to say that if you get this eBook and are thinking “Yeah, yeah, all of this is great, but how do I just stop that behavior,” get ready for a little reframe on “getting rid of something quickly” and instead “work on what’s causing that behavior so it doesn’t show up somewhere else.” Oh, and that I got to get a manicure before I do any more “photoshoots” for my eBook.
I’m currently at 99 pages and that’s only from transferring 10 out of the 19 pages of my outline.
As Dory from “Finding Nemo” would say, “Just keep swimming” (especially with this 100 degree week in Pennsylvania).
Actually, I think I’m gonna do just that. Gonna go take a dip in the pool.
Until next time!

⬆ 2023 – Stitch (10 yrs), Me (28 yrs)
⬇ 2016 – Stitch (2 yrs), Me (21 yrs)

My Favorites
Breed: Aussie Shepherds, Blue Heelers, Long-Haired Dachshunds
Owner: Open-Minded, Fun-Loving, & Involved
Treat: Macaroons & Pumpkin Pie
Trick: Finding gems at the thrift store, the Rubix Cube, & making friends anywhere